Happily Single!!

It's been along time coming. I have stayed and went back & forth in a relationship with someone who was unaware of my value. I am worth more than what I was allowing myself to experience. However, I was given this test repeatedly until I passed. I finally got tired. Only you know when it's time to move on and you don't look back. I am fully aware of my role that I played. I take full responsibility for all the pain I endured. If I blame the other person, how does that help me heal?? The thing is, it doesn't. I am in the process of healing because I understand why I stayed when I should have left. I understand why I continued to give when he still did not appreciate what I was offering. Through all the hurt there was a lesson for me to learn. I have wounds, but those wounds will heal and become scars. Those scars will be proof that I am a fighter and I have learned from this lesson and passed the test. I still love him. However, I love me more. So now I am choosing to love him from a distance. You can be an amazing women all day but if that  man isn't ready for the kind of women that you are, then you're wasting your time. I am choosing my happiness over  trying to make someone else happy. You will drain yourself emotionally trying to be everything to someone who is not deserving of what you have to offer. I love extremely hard and most women do. We just have to know how to decipher when and who to love hard. Every man is not worthy of your love or your time. I look back and reflect but I look forward with no regrets. I am truly "Happily Single". I am choosing Me. I will focus on becoming a "Better Me". No one will love you, more than You. Sincerely,
Loving Me :-)