Forgiving those who hurt you so deep is hard. However, until you forgive you will continue to hold on to that past experience and hurt. Sometimes we become use to the hurt that we are afraid to forgive. We are afraid of what forgiveness will feel like. Forgiveness is not for the one who hurt you it's for YOU!!. You release all that you have experienced and felt from being hurt. You will be free from all hurt and your heart will feel so much lighter. Forgiveness free's you and makes more room for you to receive love and regain happiness. It is hard to forgive and it won't happen overnight. Therefore, when you are ready to forgive, be ready to leave all past experiences and hurt behind for good. I think I am approaching the realm of forgiveness. Not quite there but I am headed in that direction. Always forgive those who hurt you so you can move forward in life. Today is a perfect day to start. Stay blessed. Forgive when your ready!!
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Sunday, October 6, 2013
Something for Nothing
Some men want something for nothing. They expect so much when they're offering so little. What happen to a man perusing a woman?? I really don't want to believe that chivalry is dead. I want to be courted. Is that too much to ask?? Well, it sure as hell seems like it. Don't text me at 12am asking me do I want to chill. Because the answer is no (more like HELL NO). You have not offered to take me out nor have you followed through with the offer that you made previously. Be honest, you don't really want to chill at that time of morning. The dating scence is very dry and boring. Some men have no interest in dating. They're just looking for the next "thing" to test drive. I am not interested in being just another number in your phone. I am trying to become someone's wife. I don't have time to guess what you mean or to figure out what you tryna say. Just be clear, be honest. Let a sista know if you just trying to get something for nothing. I have no more time to waste. I have wasted enough. I know what I want and what I can handle. Dealing with BS is not in my credentials. I don't owe you anything and vice versa. I need a grown man,not a grown boy.
Sincerely,
A grown ass woman :)